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Get prepared for dating, online or offline, online is better but........ If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won't even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating.
Offline you need to begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym or health club, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment.
Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others will sense that.
Go shopping and treat yourself to some new clothing and even a whole new new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you're not, but amplify and accentuate your positives.
Choose those that you have a good chance of dating. Be realistic. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous, great.Just know that others will expect you to be the same.